Dealing with Alzheimer�s in the Family
by John Trevey
Family members of Alzheimer�s patients often find themselves in the unforeseen role of caregiver, assuming the daunting responsibility of helping a loved one perform the routine responsibilities of daily life. The effects of Alzheimer�s disease impact not only the patient, but can wreak emotional havoc on family members who are caring for the patient. Alzheimer�s patients are commonly disoriented with their environments and can exhibit erratic, challenging behaviors, including angry outbursts and even physical aggression. A person with Alzheimer�s disease experiences progressive loss of mental capacity that causes severe personality changes, which takes an emotional and physical toll on his or her family members.
When caring for a family member with Alzheimer�s disease, it is important to remain calm and maintain your patience. The damage that Alzheimer�s disease does to the brain can cause patients to react disproportionately to situations, as is the case when a patient has an outburst of rage in response to an otherwise trivial event. In such situations, it is important that the caregiver does not take the behavior personally and maintains composure so as not to perpetuate the patient�s negative mental state. Keeping notes about the situations leading to outbursts can give you valuable insight into their prevention in the future, as the patient may simply be reacting to fear or a feeling of a lack of control. Maintaining composure during a patient�s angry outburst can be a trying duty, but it is important to remember that this behavior is not intentional and should not be taken personally.
Combative or otherwise defiant behavior can be a form of nonverbal communication, so being intuitive about the needs of the Alzheimer�s patient can help a caregiver deal with the demands that are being placed on him or her. By attempting to determine the sincere need behind a patient�s erratic reaction, you can address the problem and appease your loved one while fulfilling his or her needs. Do not forget that your communication style and mood also affect the patient. Bear in mind that the patient�s circumstances have caused a decreased ability to understand speech, and you should therefore speak in a peaceful, quiet tone while talking slowly and using simple sentences.
If you are the sole caretaker of a family member that has Alzheimer�s disease, seeking assistance from other family members or professionals is a good way to help ease your burden. Remember, the patient�s well being is the ultimate purpose and you may need a break to restore a composed mindset such that you can provide optimal care to your loved one.
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